Happy New Years!!! (Late)

Wow, I thought this had posted on New Years Day, but I guess that was a fail. LOL! It is New Years day, the day of many resolutions and many pictures and Snapchat memory recaps. As we venture into the new year. I wanted to do something different. I wanted to reflect on the many... Continue Reading →

My New Year Starts Now!

Happy Birthday!! Wow, today I turn 25, a whole quarter of a century! Honestly, I am truly blessed and grateful to be able to see this day. Over the past 5 years, I have endured more than I thought I would at such a young age. The past has taught me so much, especially about... Continue Reading →

Friends With Benefits… Yes or No?

Omg! I absolutely forgot about my reader questions! Clearly I have been occupied with life. Sorry I forgot all about you guys and gals! So let’s get started shall we!? This question is coming from a reader who asked to remain anonymous. “How to handle a friends with benefits relationship without getting attached?” Well, in... Continue Reading →

Establishing Structure – Honesty

Why do we feel the need to be dishonest? Personally, I think because we fear the negative outcome; but why does it have to be a negative outcome when the outcome could be positive. As humans, it’s in our nature to automatically jump to conclusions. ____________________________________________________________________________________________ When I think of building a relationship, in the... Continue Reading →

Relationship Betrayal

Relationship Betrayal hurts, but what do you do to move forward? Don't ponder on what happened. Instead, become the YOU that you've always wanted to be. Lose weight, go shopping, get your nails done, play that game, get that job, ride a motorcycle etc. and most importantly. Find that person who does not want to... Continue Reading →

Establishing Structure – Loyalty 

Loyalty is the quality of be loyal to someone. Being loyal, is like one being faithful to one’s obligations or engagements. This, is why loyalty is important in a relationship, and why it's tied into the structure of a relationship. Loyalty, is a strong feeling of support, allegiance. When I think of building a relationship,... Continue Reading →

Memorial Day

Let's not forget the true reason we are able to gather on this day. This is the day we honor those who have given their all. Because of them, we are able to walk, talk and live freely. Please, on today as your fire up the pit, open a cold one. Take some time to... Continue Reading →

Depression EXIST

Depression spares none. Be open minded when talking to those who are going through an episode. Sometimes just listening is all that needs to be done. Listening call help the depressed individual talk themselves out of the episode. The thoughts are being released and not suppressed. Life has not been very easy for me. In... Continue Reading →

Establishing Structure – Respect

Structure is important in a relationship, because you must have some sort of morals or principles; I guess you could say a sort of code to your relationship. This structure is what builds and shapes the relationship, this is called integrity. When I think of building a relationship, in the form of a house. I... Continue Reading →

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