“You don’t measure love in time. You measure love in transformation. Sometimes the longest connections yield very little growth, while the briefest of encounters change everything. The heart doesn’t wear a watch – it’s timeless. It doesn’t care how long you know someone. It doesn’t care if you had a 40 year anniversary if there is no juice in the connection. What the heart cares about is resonance. Resonance that opens it, resonance that enlivens it, resonance that calls it home. And when it finds it, the transformation begins…” – Jeff Brown
How did this happen?
Who would have known, such a beautiful person could be in your face the entire time. With the many distractions I faced, I am so blessed I finally woke up and realized what I wanted was right in front of me. Here I was not paying attention to the signs, loosing sight of happiness. I remember like it was yesterday, this guy whom I had no clue of who introduced himself, me being the friendly person I am, I greeted him and he began to talk to me. From the jump he immediately wanted to get to know me, but I wasn’t bothering with that situation. At the time, I had my eyes on someone else.
As time went on, I found myself gaining this guy as a good friend, months had passed 5 to be exact, I clearly was no longer pursing my first choice. Well, once that became public, the same guy approached me, LOL! I remember this very clearly, he said “I been trying to talk to you on another level, and you wasn’t paying it any mind and I respected that, but now I am going to shoot my shot.” So, he took his shot and put his number in my phone. So, we began to talk at a more frequent rate.
After a month of talking and going on our first date. We decided were to become a couple! I was very scared at first, because I was unsure if I was truly ready, but I did some praying and searching and I told myself, this guy clearly doesn’t have an agenda. In that moment, I knew I could trust him. We continued to take things slow, and now we are at the point we are happy. Those on the outside will obviously see us as moving to fast, but clearly we beg to differ.
I honestly Look forward to bringing you more of our story as it transforms and unfolds. Yes, we know its just the beginning, and yes we know we have a long road ahead. However, if you both parties want the relationship to work, then the relationship will work. He makes me so happy, I am able to be me he played a part in me learning who I am and he accepts me for who I am. I couldn’t ask for anything else! Stay Tuned for as we head into a new journey together!
As always, everyone is AWESOME!!